So many holiday season traditions tend to focus on the youngest members of the family. It can be tough to come up with traditions and activities that are suitable for the entire family. Additionally, during those years when there may be no little ones running about, it’s important to keep the connections strong and keep the holidays meaningful for everyone. I’ve been asking around for suggestions to see how other families involve all the generations in holiday traditions and I’ve unearthed some fabulous ideas:
1. When the kids are old enough (middle-school age and up) start drawing names so each person gets a “secret” pal to shop for. This lets the older kids be involved in “grown-up” activities and encourages the various generations to interact with each other on equal footing.
2. Organize an annual “talent show”–I thought this sounded fun and it takes the pressure off of gift-giving and makes for an interactive, participatory event. People can be encouraged to perform individually or in groups and you might even want to have a “theme” each year.
3. An annual reading of “A Christmas Carol”–various versions of this holiday classic can be found in libraries and even on the internet. By making enough copies of the script for all the participants, you can make sure everyone gets a part. If the family is especially large, you may have to divide up the parts by acts and/or have people help out by making the sound effects. One family makes a big deal out of the role of Tiny Tim and it is a right of passage when a young member becomes old enough to be able to read and take on the responsibility of this part.
4. A sporting event or game–This suggestion came up repeatedly so I am guessing many families have an ongoing, annual touch football game or soccer match. But, why stop there? Why not start an ultimate Frisbee game or hockey or gather for a holiday round of miniature golf?
These are just a few suggestions for multi-generational holiday traditions that could easily be adjusted and incorporated to a variety of family situations. I’d love to hear if you have any more ideas for ways to involve the entire family, regardless of age, in creative annual activities…