Today’s youth live in an entirely different world than the one I grew up in. Although I was in the youth program just over a decade ago, I’m amazed at how much things have changed. I started college when the Internet first became big or common. I remember that everyone suddenly had to have a computer with a modem, and then we were connecting with people online. I had someone in my freshman year ward that married someone she met online, and I even went out on a date with someone I met online. (Long story, but someone I knew and trusted, knew him quite well and I got his approval before I did it.)
Now though the youth are connecting online in ways that I didn’t even consider as possible when I was in high school or college. The other unique thing is that they are constantly plugged in whether it is through the Internet on Facebook or MySpace or through texting on their cell phones during an activity; the youth are constantly in contact with each other and other people. The communication and activities may be a little bit different, but it is there.
So as a leader how do you deal with this, and how do you teach the youth the things they need to do in order to protect themselves in this changing society? You may want to start with a meeting for the parents or a joint fireside to discuss these issues. Many parents may not be fully aware of all the information that is available or that the youth are participating in.
Next don’t be afraid to plug in as well. Set up your own Facebook page. This gives you a chance to check up on any activity that you may be worried about. More importantly encourage the parents to be active on Facebook, so they can check up on any activity. It would not be unseemly to request that cell phones be turned off during an activity. If it continues to be a problem, collect them at the door. It is important that they do not become a distraction from the spirit or the meeting.
While the youth are becoming more connected with the world around them, they are also becoming disconnected as well. With the instantaneous communication, they may forget the value of a long talk with their friends and family. Teaching about relationships and service may help your youth to realize the importance of being in the present. Set up opportunities for the youth to serve without distractions and interruptions. They have a lot to deal with, and will need the spirit more now than ever before.
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