I had previously started talking about how it may be a hard decision to determine whether or not the person that you are dating is right for you. I have also discussed how many times there are hints, clues, and signs that a relationship will fail.
My last article began giving some questions that you can ask yourself about your mate. If you truly answer the questions in an honest manner you should have your answer about whether or not to put more effort into your relationship.
The first two questions dealt with children and having children with the person. The third question involved how the partner affects your own personal life.
The final question concerns the rest of your life.
Think about the person that you are with. If that person never changed from the way that he or she is, would you be able to spend the rest of your life with him or her happily? Is there something about the person that you are hoping or trying to change or can you be happy just the way that things are?
If there is something that you are secretly hoping to change then perhaps this is not the person for you. You should not enter a life long partnership hoping or secretly trying to change something about your mate. There is no guarantee that anything will change. If it does not change, can you still be happy? Can you satisfied just the way that your mate is now?
There are many questions that you can ask yourself about your relationship and your mate. However if you seriously consider the four questions asked in this article and in the pervious one, you are sure to come up with the answer that you are looking for about whether or not this is the person for you.