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Kids and Movies: How Young is Too Young?

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My 4-year-old daughter has been eagerly counting down the days until the release of “Madagascar: Escape 2 Africa.” We have the original on DVD, and frankly I’m surprised the movie’s images haven’t been permanently seared on our TV screen given the amount of times she’s watched it.

The DreamWorks movie about Central Park Zoo animals that end up in Madagascar (and in the sequel—Africa) is age appropriate for children ages 3 and up (at least in my opinion), which is why I didn’t think twice about shelling out $15 to take my lion/hippo/zebra/giraffe/monkey/penguin/lemur-loving child to an actual movie theater to see the animated sequel.

Yesterday was the big day. We went to the 1 p.m. “ultra-screen” showing (the screen is supposedly three times larger than average movie screens) and took our seats towards the back of the crowded theater.

I should mention that this was not my daughter’s first trip to the movie theater. She’s been a few times prior to see “Surf’s Up,” “The Wild,” and “Charlotte’s Web.” Still, she sat on my lap the entire time with her hoodie pulled over her ears (did I mention the “ultra screen” is also three times louder than the average theater?). She saw the movie once and can already recite practically every line in the film.

Don’t ask me to recite a single word. I was too busy watching the irritated mother in front of me try to keep her cool while the toddler in front of her used his seat as a trampoline… and a jungle gym… and private stage for singing and dancing. The rambunctious tot looked to be about 2 years old and the woman seated directly behind him looked to be about ready to strangle the kid’s mother mid-way through the movie.

I couldn’t help but feel sorry for the woman who was there with her own children. There’s no way she could have gotten a clear view of the screen with the boy bouncing up and down on his seat. What’s more, even though I was three rows behind him I could clearly hear the toddler asking his mom (who, by the way, was completely oblivious that her son was standing on his seat) a million questions (in his outside voice) about what was happening on screen, and why it was that his older sister had her own box of popcorn and he didn’t.

Should the boy’s mother escorted him out of the theater given the fact that he was clearly more interested in using his seat as a pogo stick than sitting in it to watch the movie? The woman seated directly behind them would have likely answered with an emphatic “yes.”

Perhaps, the mom considered doing so, but was worried about leaving her other kids alone in the theater. Who knows? If nothing else she should have tried to place the antsy tot in her lap or gently coax him back on his bottom, though I’m not sure how well that would have gone over given his spunky disposition.

What would you have done if you were the boy’s mother? What if you were the poor woman seated behind him? How would you have reacted? I’m sure she didn’t leave the theater feeling as though she got her money’s worth.

At what age should a child be allowed to watch a movie in a real theater?

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About Michele Cheplic

Michele Cheplic was born and raised in Hilo, Hawaii, but now lives in Wisconsin. Michele graduated from the University of Wisconsin-Madison with a degree in Journalism. She spent the next ten years as a television anchor and reporter at various stations throughout the country (from the CBS affiliate in Honolulu to the NBC affiliate in Green Bay). She has won numerous honors including an Emmy Award and multiple Edward R. Murrow awards honoring outstanding achievements in broadcast journalism. In addition, she has received awards from the Aircraft Owners and Pilots Association for her reports on air travel and the Wisconsin Education Association Council for her stories on education. Michele has since left television to concentrate on being a mom and freelance writer.