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A Losing Proposition

Too often when we get sick of trying to lose weight, we may resort to an extreme to get those pounds off. The problem is we’re force-fed a diet of quick and easy diet tips. These oft-misused pronouns leave us frustrated and overwhelmed.

When this happens, we are prone to the following choices. These choices are uncomfortable, they are demanding and they are very, very tough. They work, but they are far from healthy or ideal choices to make.

Starving Yourself

In our young, we call this anorexia. It’s an eating disorder. While we need to employ healthier eating habits – starving yourself is not healthy. While it’s true that people can trim back on their excess and put off meals by as much as 1 to 3 hours. This will reduce your overall caloric intake. That will begin a weight loss process. However, this plan will lead either to an unhealthy loss of muscle and water weight or lead you to binging when you finally do allow yourself to eat.

Be aware of what your teenager is going through. When you consider the number of stories we pound into our media about childhood obesity, the pressure on teenagers is already excessive. This just ups the ante of psychological stress. Be aware of their eating habits and watch out for symptoms that they are starving themselves to lose weight or to reach a body image as proposed by our culture.

Eliminate Fun Foods

Instead of starvation, we choose to eat a diet of bland meals. Imagine the decrease in excitement when you take spices and fun flavors out of the diet. Diets of plain white rice, plain white potatoes, plain vegetables and plain meat are palatable but eventually you will decrease what you are eating because it isn’t exciting.

This fulfills the requirement of making us disinterested in food. It will also help arrest our need for comfort foods. There is nothing exciting about eating these meals and thus by keeping our meals boring and tedious, we start to lose weight. Again, this isn’t an ideal solution because we run the risk of eliminating foods that we need to eat – foods that provide us with nutrition.

Driving the Points Home

While it may seem that I am hammering on these points this week, it’s important to understand. I’ve tried a lot of different diets over the years. At my largest, my weight exceeded 250 pounds. My self-image was vastly affected. Every disappointment I experienced with a diet led me to harsher choices either internally or externally.

These harsh choices are not healthy. They lead to even harsher set backs and the negativity of the loop is worse than the problem that brought you to the table in the first place. Discovering the right diet for you means making better choices, making lifestyle changes and enjoying the diet you choose.

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About Heather Long

Heather Long is 35 years old and currently lives in Wylie, Texas. She has been a freelance writer for six years. Her husband and she met while working together at America Online over ten years ago. They have a beautiful daughter who just turned five years old. She is learning to read and preparing for kindergarten in the fall. An author of more than 300 articles and 500+ web copy pieces, Heather has also written three books as a ghostwriter. Empty Canoe Publishing accepted a novel of her own. A former horse breeder, Heather used to get most of her exercise outside. In late 2004, early 2005 Heather started studying fitness full time in order to get herself back into shape. Heather worked with a personal trainer for six months and works out regularly. She enjoys shaking up her routine and checking out new exercises. Her current favorites are the treadmill (she walks up to 90 minutes daily) and doing yoga for stretching. She also performs strength training two to three times a week. Her goals include performing in a marathon such as the Walk for Breast Cancer Awareness or Team in Training for Lymphoma research. She enjoys sharing her knowledge and experience through the fitness and marriage blogs.