How can you tell if the lessons you have been trying to teach your children are sinking in? One way is to watch the things your kids say or do. If you kids insist that you attend school events or you receive compliments about your teen’s behavior, you’re probably doing something right. David Breachoft, a professor of psychology and family studies at Concordia College, asked his students to come up with a list of important lessons for life that they learned from their mothers. Here’s a sampling of what his students had to say:
You can do anything you set your mind to!
Always forgive.
Fight for what you believe in.
Before making a decision, listen to all sides.
If you want to succeed, work hard and never give up.
You can handle anything life throws at you.
Be patient.
Remember the importance of family.
Always be yourself.
If you start something, finish it.
Show your kids how much you love them.
As parents, we don’t always think we’re being effective. However, as our kids get older they realize the sacrifices we made for them and the lessons we tried so hard to impart. So take heart and know that even when it seems like we’re not getting through to our kids, we are. I know as a child I hated how strict my mother was. When I became an adult, I realized that the way she raised me actually helped make me the person I am today. Of course, at the time I didn’t realize it. It’s tough when all of your friends are allowed to go places that you can’t or to date. I couldn’t wear pants until I was in high school! There are rules I have that I know Tyler hates. He’s already tried to play the “everyone else is doing it” card, but I stand firm. I know that he will thank me later, even if he doesn’t realize it. That’s the foresight that parents have over their kids.
So this Mother’s Day give yourself a pat on the back and know that one day your kids will thank you for all the hard work, love and understanding you gave them. Happy Mother’s Day!
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