In a previous article, I discussed the results of a study that concluded that college freshmen living at home with their parents had a better mental health than those that did not live with their parents. So you are going to college and living at home? Your mental health is great right? Not necessarily.
While enjoying the privacy of your own room and bathroom and not forking out for living expenses, your parents may be driving you crazy! College is an adjustment without factoring in living arrangements. You have graduated from high school and you feel independent. So how do you live at home with your parents and gain your freedom and sanity?
Get a Life
Just because you live at home doesn’t mean that you are banned from all campus activities. Get involved with some campus clubs. Meet other students in your classes. Create a hang. It could be a coffee shop or campus pub. If you invite friends to your house, be respectful and keep noise levels low. If needed arrange to have your own phone line installed.
Don’t Forget Your Family
Likely, your schedule will be different from your family’s schedule. Remember to make time to talk with your parents. Don’t assume that your home is now a hotel. Appreciate the fact that your parents are allowing you to live there.
Set Ground Rules
Let your parents know your expectations. Discuss topics such as curfew (if you will have one), guests, and privacy. Talk with parents about your financial status. Will you be working? Will you help with household expenses?
Be Thankful
Remind yourself every so often how lucky you are that you didn’t have to pack and leave some of your belongings at home. Tell yourself how thankful you are that you are not living with a group of strangers. Enjoy living at home while you can!
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