When is it appropriate to have your baby shower?
Different religions and cultures may have different requirements and those should be the first consideration. If that does not apply to your situation then a shower should not come before 20 weeks. If a woman is pregnant with multiples or will be on bed rest then you may plan around that or have it after the birth.
Should your baby shower invitation have the place you are registered?
At one time it was poor etiquette to include that information on your invitation. However, times have changed and you will find more people asking about gift registry. Many stores will give you a nice little card to insert with your invitation. The card insert is the most appropriate way in these changing times to announce where you are registered.
Can you have a baby shower for each baby?
The original rule of thumb was only one baby shower for the first baby. As time goes on rules tend to morph or change. You will find those who believe every baby deserves a shower. You will find those who feel granting another baby shower should only be done for special circumstances like having a baby after a long time, having a baby with a new spouse, and so on. Special circumstances for an additional baby shower are perfectly appropriate. However, if you simply believe every baby needs a party then do not plan a traditional shower. Instead have your guests bring a book for the baby, diapers, or casseroles to freeze to make dinner time easier after having the baby. It is not good etiquette to register for a second baby if you do fall under the category of special circumstances.
Can you throw a baby shower for yourself?
No. Quite simply it is inappropriate for you or your spouse to throw a baby shower. It is also inappropriate for you to ask someone to throw you a baby shower. Most likely someone like a close friend or relative will come forward and plan a shower for you.
Is it rude to bring a baby to a baby shower?
The ultimate decision will fall to the mom-to-be. However, in general it is not considered rude to bring a baby to a baby shower. If you notice that your baby is becoming the center of attention simply divert the conversation or politely remind the guest that the focus is on the mom-to-be.
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