The end of summer signifies the beginning of a new school year. Some children become bored over the summer months and love the additional socialization that a new school year brings. Many children have had a wonderful summer filled with all kinds of things to do and dread this time of the year. It brings a great deal of anxiety for them.
Here are some things that you can do to help children make the back to school transition a bit easier:
*Talk to your child about his fears or concerns. Let him know that his concern is important even if it seems trivial to you. Do not make him feel foolish or say that his concern is “silly”. It is not silly to him. Attempt to come up with a solution that will ease his fears. If his concern is more than minute then consider speaking to his new teacher so that she is aware of it.
*Go over his routine with him beforehand. Be sure to check out the bus stop and schedule of his day. Visit the school a few days before he needs to attend and point out familiar or new things. See if you can meet the teachers and/or principal.
*Shop for school items with a positive attitude. Let him pick out the things that he likes according to your school supply list. Allow him the freedom to pick out any new school clothes and shoes within reason. Give him as many choices as you are able to.
*Check and see if any of the neighborhood kids will be on his bus or in his class. Having a buddy will reassure him that he is not alone.
*On the first day of school be prepared for some hesitation. Get him up plenty early so that he can have a relaxing start to his morning. Avoid rushing him around and do not rush around yourself. This will only add to the anxiety. Be sure that he has a good breakfast and if he is taking his lunch be sure to give him something good along with something nutritious to eat.
*If he is riding the bus go there with him. If he is older and you feel it would embarrass him, stand off in the distance where you are within eyesight of him without being seen. Be strong, be positive, and be upbeat.
As you see him get on the bus you will likely feel the tears welling up in your eyes, but this is the part where you have to put on your biggest smile and wave good-bye no matter how much it hurts.