After my husband left I felt far from beautiful. The sting of rejection was so strong I could barely get out of bed in the morning. It took all I had just to breathe in and out. I didn’t feel like getting reading in the morning. I didn’t want to go anywhere or do anything. I didn’t want to see anyone. I honestly just wanted to sit on the couch and wallow. I think I stayed in my pajamas for a week. I didn’t see any point in getting dressed when I was feeling so miserable. I was a mess both inside and out.
A month went by and while I was sill falling apart on the inside, I started taking care of myself again. I was amazed at the difference it made. I suddenly had more energy. I started feeling better about myself because I was taking the time to look healthy and beautiful again. People immediately noticed a difference in the way I carried myself. I suddenly had more confidence.
I was still in the grieving process, and would be for several more months, but something as simple as forcing myself to get ready in the morning helped me feel better about myself. I was happier which had a profound impact on my self-esteem.
As a mother we often put our own needs aside for that of our children. Don’t forget to do things that make you feel good too. Whether it’s painting your toes or taking a warm bubble bath. It doesn’t really matter what it is as long as it is something that makes you feel good about yourself. Make it a goal to say something positive each time you look in the mirror. Before long you will begin to realize just how beautiful you are both inside and out.