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Book Review: Adoption Stories for Young Children

It can be hard to find books for young children that address adoption questions. Those that do usually talk about differences in appearance not affecting ability to love, or about a young animal finding a mother. Those few that do talk about adoption usually talk about how badly the adoptive parents wanted a baby. Only a very few address the birthmother and why the child was available for adoption.

Adoption Stories for Young Children by adoption attorney Randall Hicks, fills this need. It is a book written for the very young child, illustrated with black and white photographs of real children and families.

The entire book can be read in a few minutes. There is one real “story” about a boy whose babysitter had a baby she couldn’t care for and how that baby was adopted by neighbors who wanted a child. The story is sensitively handled in simple words. It reflects the reality that in infant adoptions in America today, the birthmother usually chooses the adoptive parents and they usually have some openness. In this story, the birthmother goes off to college and still keeps in touch by letter with the boy she babysat (the narrator) and with the adoptive family.

“She is growing up, just like me,” the narrator says. “She said she will always think of Brittany and is proud she made sure Brittany has the best mom and dad in the world.”

The book is very clear, though, that adoption is forever and the adoptive parents named the baby and are now the baby’s mom and dad.

The second, much shorter “story” in the book is about the boy finding a lizard. “He lost his mom and dad so my family sort of adopted him. That means we love him and he will be part of our family forever.”

I usually hate to see pet analogies used with children and my initial reaction was to question why the story was in here. But my kids loved it, and the very cute photographs of how the boy cares for his lizard (including putting him in his toy school bus to send him to school). Perhaps it serves as a lighter subject in between more serious adoption stories.

The rest of the book is not really “stories” but tells of other adopted people the boy knows—a pair of siblings who look alike, a pair of siblings who look very different, a boy adopted from Korea when he was two, a girl adopted by her grandmother, and a girl who told her teacher she was adopted and discovered that the teacher had been adopted too.

To purchase this book from Amazon.com, click here.

Please see these related blogs:

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About Pam Connell

Pam Connell is a mother of three by both birth and adoption. She has worked in education, child care, social services, ministry and journalism. She resides near Seattle with her husband Charles and their three children. Pam is currently primarily a Stay-at-Home-Mom to Patrick, age 8, who was born to her; Meg, age 6, and Regina, age 3, who are biological half-sisters adopted from Korea. She also teaches preschoolers twice a week and does some writing. Her activities include volunteer work at school, church, Cub Scouts and a local Birth to Three Early Intervention Program. Her hobbies include reading, writing, travel, camping, walking in the woods, swimming and scrapbooking. Pam is a graduate of Seattle University and Gonzaga University. Her fields of study included journalism, religious education/pastoral ministry, political science and management. She served as a writer and editor of the college weekly newspaper and has been Program Coordinator of a Family Resource Center and Family Literacy Program, Volunteer Coordinator at a church, Religion Teacher, Preschool Teacher, Youth Ministry Coordinator, Camp Counselor and Nanny. Pam is an avid reader and continuing student in the areas of education, child development, adoption and public policy. She is eager to share her experiences as a mother by birth and by international adoption, as a mother of three kids of different learning styles and personalities, as a mother of kids of different races, and most of all as a mom of three wonderful kids!