It may sound strange to moms whose families are supportive, but there are some people who just don’t get breastfeeding. They don’t understand that breastfeeding is absolutely the best way to nourish your baby. Try explaining the benefits and see if it makes things easier.
If it’s an issue of others wanting to feed the baby, consider pumping so in-laws or extended family members can take turns occasionally. The issue may also be that many people are uncomfortable with physical intimacies. In that case, the problem belongs to the other person and he or she should learn to adjust, or simply leave (or at least leave the room), when it is time for baby to nurse.
Most breastfeeding moms are quite discreet, but there are those who are less so, because nursing is natural and they see no reason to hide it. Being more discreet may help ease anxiety. Still, you should never let anyone make you uncomfortable to the point that you consider giving up nursing to appease him or her. We don’t let others change our minds about other important choices for our children simply because they feel awkward, so we shouldn’t be intimidated when it comes to breastfeeding either.
Make sure your husband is also aware of the many and important benefits or nursing, and ask him to lend his support. It also helps to have an outlet where you can share and discuss experiences and concerns with other breastfeeding mothers. Visit online forums and talk with other women who may have good advice or whom can at least relate to what you are experiencing.
In the end, you will have to make the ultimate choice and decide what is best for your baby. In most cases, once people realize how important breastfeeding is to your baby’s well being, they will learn to adjust. Over time, some people even learn to understand and appreciate the commitment and effort involved. You deserve support and encouragement for making this commitment to your baby.