Being a hopeless romantic myself, I say the answer to the question in the title is “no.” I don’t think there is such a thing as being too romantic, at least as far as my relationship is concerned. That answer may vary with different couples.
Some spouses aren’t particularly comfortable with numerous romantic gestures. This may be because he or she isn’t certain how to reciprocate. Your mate not be as creative or as expressive as you are when it comes to such things, and may feel a little put off. Make sure he or she knows that you don’t expect your gestures to be matched, but that you just want to do something special to express your feelings.
Different people also find different things romantic. You may enjoy love letters. You may think fourteen cards on the fourteenth day of February is the perfect way to show your spouse how much you love him or her, but her spouse may find it a bit overdone, even on a romantic day like Valentine’s Day.
Get creative and think of ways to introduce romance in a manner that your spouse will enjoy and appreciate. Romance doesn’t necessarily have to mean fluff. It can be the smallest things.
Soft words are often a great way to add more romance to your relationship. Spontaneously approach your spouse, brush your lips against his cheek, and whisper, “You take my breath away,” or something similar then walk away and see what kind of reaction you get.
Just doing something nice can also be very romantic. Give your spouse a hand with a chore he or she doesn’t like doing, or just do it yourself once in a while. Go out of your way to make life easier and happier for your spouse. Showing someone how important he or she is to you is very romantic, even if taking out the trash doesn’t necessarily seem like it.
Unique and Romantic Valentine’s Day Ideas