Just because you are married and in love with your spouse does not mean that you must love everything about him. No two people can be so completely compatible that there is not one thing that they wish were a little different about each other. So now that you are settled with the fact that it is okay to not like something about your husband and you can still love him, can you answer this question? If you could change one thing about your husband, what would it be? Give some serious though to this question. The answer could tell … Continue reading →

I left off a discussion in which we were discussing how women relate to their men. In that discussion I described how some women are completely accepting of their man because his positive aspects outweigh his negatives. I also talked about how some women are very rejectful toward their husbands and how this can lead to marriage dissolvement. Some women combine the two above together and simply tolerate their man. Half of the time they accept him and his faults. The other half they reject him. This juggling back and forth between the two can leave both of you in … Continue reading →

One of the greatest challenges in marriage is learning to live with, deal with, and in some cases even tolerate your partner of the opposite sex. Both men and women can be heard with struggles and complaints about their mate. The two genders think differently, act differently, and feel differently. It is impossible to completely understand the feelings, thoughts, and emotions of your mate due to the difference in chemical make-up. There is no wonder why we must be understanding and work at relating to our mate. In this article I will focus mainly on the various ways that you … Continue reading →

My last couple of articles have been talking about men and women and how they deal with unhappiness. Women tend to be much more open and expressive about their feelings than men. Men are often more misinterpreted than women. This misinterpretation can lead to the dissolving of a marriage. While it should be on the man’s priority list to open up more and try to express himself, women can also play a part in better communication. Women tend to let negative and personal feelings get into the way when reading their spouse. Not all of his actions are personal attacks … Continue reading →

Previously I began discussing how I have heard of many men commenting that they were unhappy in their marriage for a long time before they ever decided to take action and have an affair or get a divorce. In many cases their deep unhappiness is often not known by others. In that same article I talked about how most women cannot go unnoticeably unhappy for any long length of time. Women are much more expressive with their feelings than men. They typically are more verbal about their feelings and give fewer little hints about what they feel. Men on the … Continue reading →

A recent show I was watching displayed a group of men discussing their marriages and relationships. In this conversation, the men were complaining that their women were impossible to please. They commented that no matter what it was that they did, it was never good enough. So are they right? Are women impossible to please? Do we always long for more? I should never admit it but I began thinking that perhaps they are right. I could visual a woman who would give anything for her husband to do something romantic just one night. She would be some overwhelmed and … Continue reading →