Virtue is defined as moral excellence. From virtue a princess’s character and actions will reflect Christ. It is where all over character traits and right actions hinge. Yet being virtuous is not always the easy choice and will at times take courage to set faith into action.
God places virtue as more valuable than wealth. Worldly wealth is temporary and does not please God. A virtuous life is one that pleases the Lord and lives eternally. Virtue is not to be defined by the world but defined by moral excellence rooted in the Word of God. A virtuous heart makes wise decisions, even during times of adversity, based on the Lord’s leading. Courage is demanded if one allows virtue to manifest in our Christian walk. Courage does not blot away fear yet it allows one to act in faith during fearful times.
Esther is an example of courage during a time of fear. Esther feared going to the King for she could be put to death if for merely entering his courts and speaking to him uninvited. She prayed and allowed God to strengthen her to overcome her fear and walk for His purpose.
Modeling Courage
The most effective way to teach courage is by displaying courage. Daughters who are still learning to use the Word of God as a source of strength need to see this spiritual concept manifest physically. When we teach a child to add we often use manipulatives to bring a physical and visual aspect to the lesson. Lessons are solidified when a hands on approach is taken. The connection from a concept to the physical is powerful. Just as we show them how to add by adding we need to model courage by being courageous. When a time comes to stand up for Jesus, do we stand up? When the time comes to stay silent, are we silent? Do we stand strong against the wind of fear? Do we fear the enemy’s roar more than we trust the Word of God?
Discussion
Have you been in a situation that demanded a courageous act? How did you overcome it?
Ask your daughter to give an example of a time she feared yet had courage to do the right thing. Perhaps ask her about a time she witnessed to someone for the first time or had to follow God’s rules despite what friends were doing. Or a time she had to tell you something she feared telling you. A young daughter may not have many experiences yet asking about a time she slept in a room after seeing a spider will get the point across.
Give an example in your life when fear paralyzed you. Give an example in your life when God set you free. You do not have to be too personal, especially for young ones.
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