Yes, I have admitted it before. I am a huge Hannah Montana fan! I do actually enjoy watching the television show. And luckily I was inspired to write an article based on one episode that I remember.
In that episode Miley’s dad and Lilly’s mom went out on a date. I am sure that if you are a watcher you also saw it. It probably has been a rerun a million times!
The date did not end as happily as Miley and Lilly had hoped. Lily’s mom was upset because Miley’s dad wanted to pay for the dinner.
Miley’s dad was upset because Lily’s mom offered to pay for the dinner.
Years ago it would have rarely been heard of that a lady pay for a date, open a door for herself, or pull out her own chair. However, times have changed.
Women feel much more evolved and independent than ever before. Women are making their way up in the world at a very fast pace.
While I believe that women are very capable and even more qualified than some men, I also believe in being treated like a lady.
I enjoy the pampering.
There is nothing wrong with a man being respectful, considerate, and honorable. However, many women feel that they are being belittled and are offended when a man takes over and carries out duties for her such as ordering dinner, opening doors, paying, and pulling out chairs.
Men have also changed in their ways of thinking about how women should be treated. Many men have women who are bosses or who are in higher positions than them. They do not see women as being their responsibly to care for as men in the past once did.
So how do you feel about men being gentlemen? So you prefer to open the doors yourself or have one opened for you?