If you are pregnant, you were likely asked about domestic violence during at least one visit to your health care provider. The first time I was given literature about domestic violence, I was surprised. It turns out, there are good reasons for the increase in pregnancy outreach.
In addition to offering help and information about resources, the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecologists collects data. Their statistics show that nearly twenty five percent of pregnant women suffer some form of emotional or physical abuse during their pregnancies.
In fact, there is evidence to suggest women are at increased risk during their pregnancies. Statistics from the American Medical Association show that women who are pregnant or have recently given birth are more likely to die as a result of a homicide than any other cause of death. In the majority of these cases, the assailant is a spouse or romantic partner.
Ironically, during this time of increased risk of violence, women may be less likely to leave. Women tend to feel vulnerable during pregnancy and are often more hesitant to break free of a damaging relationship during pregnancy.
As information about the danger of domestic abuse during pregnancy came to light, outreach programs were implemented to attempt to get the word out to pregnant women. Doctors and midwives were the obvious choice for addressing the topic, since they regularly see the women and build a relationship that can be essential in getting help for the woman.
If you are the victim of domestic violence, don’t be ashamed or afraid to ask for help. A safe home is the best gift you can give your baby, so do what is necessary to ensure your safety. Confiding in your midwife or doctor is a great place to start.
Other Resources:
National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-787-3224
National Coalition Against Domestic Violence www.ncadv.org