I think I’ve now heard it all. Probably not. . .but I have to wonder how much better it could get. A forum of homeschoolers decided to collectively list arguments that we had heard against homeschooling so that we could put together cogent defenses. There are always two sides to the coin and some of the arguments, such as what to do during the high school years, how to respond to special needs children, and the all important socialization question; warrant our serious consideration. To an extent, it can be beneficial to convince others that we have not entirely lost our minds by home schooling our kids.
Of course with the serious questions, you’ll always meet someone who has thought of something ridiculous. Up until this, the most absurd argument that I had ever heard against home schooling was “What about the prom?” My poor children may never be able to attend a prom! However, I now have read something that has topped the cake!
Consider this partial list from a gentleman who I will describe as misguided. . .at best. These are by the way, this gentleman’s words, as quoted by another member of the forum. (I honestly and truly did not make these up.)
1. Most home school teachers are moms. Most moms get PMS. If you home school your child, he/she will be subjected to your mood swings. She/he is never subjected to mood swings from teachers at school because of the professional environment.
2. Children should never see parents fight. However, if they’re home all the time, they’re bound to see their parents fight because there’s no where else to go. This can cause psychological damage.
3. Dating is a life process that can only be learned from one’s peers. It is much more beneficial for children to learn about dating and interaction with the opposite sex from their peers than from their parents. Besides, if the kids are home all the time, how will they find anyone to date? Homeschooling can potentially lead to the parents never becoming grandparents.
I am laughing so hard I cannot even comment except to issue the following warning to my fellow home schooling moms: beware of becoming moody. If you do become moody–a career will likely take care of it as apparently the “professional environment” is a proven cure for PMS. I don’t know why more women aren’t trying it!
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