My latest series of articles has focused on tips that women can carry out to help enhance their relationship with their husbands.
In the first article I discussed the importance of taking the guess work out your needs by speaking out about what it is that is on your mind.
The next article focused on the importance of being supportive about your man taking a periodic guys’ night out.
In this article I am directing the conversation toward his faults.
Everyone has faults. No matter how much you love your mate; eventually (usually found after you have lived together for a while) you will discover that there is something about him that annoys you. There is that one thing that you could simply do without.
Believe it or not, no matter how small this particular trait is, it can actually consume and even destroy your relationship if you let yourself dwell on it enough.
The best thing that you can do for your relationship, your mate, and yourself is to recognize your mates faults and accept them (assuming that they are reasonable).
If your mate is guilty of never putting the top back on the toothpaste, come to expect it instead of continuously getting bent out of shape over it.
No doubt there are things about you that annoy him. In return he too should recognize and accept your downfalls.
We all have strengths and weaknesses. Find your mates strengths and place a positive focus on them. Identify your mate’s weaknesses and even discuss them with your mate if necessary, then let them go. Your mate’s character and personality is not going to change significantly. Therefore if you plan to live harmoniously in a healthy relationship you are going to have to accept that the two of you are not perfect.