We all know that there are times of the month when a woman’s hormones are higher than others, times when intimacy is the least desired thing on the planet and times when it sounds like a whole lot of fun. But there may be other issues at play as well—for both men and women. Let’s take a look.
Some people say that the cycles of the moon very much influence our sex drives. I haven’t interviewed any werewolves for this article, but I can say that I have noticed that my husband seems a little more … amorous … when there’s a full moon.
Other people attribute their friskiness to the amount of light outside. During the summer, when there’s a lot of light and the vitamin D is just flowing, you might find yourself feeling a little more romantic. Maybe you can make this work out best if there’s a full moon right in the middle of the summer, thereby combining both theories …
For others, there’s a certain time of day when they just naturally feel more at peace with the world around them. Some are more romantically inclined when they’re well rested, making intimacy in the morning more appealing to them than intimacy at night. Some people feel most inclined after spending an entire evening with their partner, talking and having dinner.
You know yourself better than anyone, and you know the times when you are most likely to feel romantic. You know what your triggers are, and you also know what annoys you the most—the things you really, really hate to have happen right before a romantic encounter—the mood killers. I suggest sitting down and talking with your partner. Talk it all out and find out when they are feeling most romantic. By being sensitive to each other’s emotional and physical fluctuations, you can find times when you are both in the mood, connected, and can feel the most bonded through your intimacy. It takes a little communication and a little cooperation, sometimes a babysitter or a night out, but you can find ways to work together to find the most fulfillment for both of you.
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