As the saying goes, “Creativity is the spice of life!” A little creativity can also spice up your marriage!It is so easy to allow ourselves to get into a rut when it comes to our relationship with our spouse. Remember when you first started dating? The excitement you felt when his hand brushed yours or the anticipation you experienced just before he kissed you? What a wonderful and powerful feeling. Sure, over time those butterflies and adrenaline rushes calm a bit but they don’t have to die completely.
Think back to those beginning days in your relationship. What interactions with one another made you feel good? What made him feel good? Did you wear sexier clothing? Did you listen more intently when he spoke? Did you hold hands when you were together or sit next to one another on the couch? Did you greet one another with a kiss when you would start and end a new day? It is never too late to rekindle the romance and excitement you once felt. Here are some tips for how to show him you still care and are still into him.
Make a date with your husband
Send him a sexy e mail or leave a note for him to find when he comes home and ask him on a date
Pull out that dress you used to wear when you really wanted him to notice you and put it on. Or, buy a new one and surprise him! He married you because he is attracted to you. You are beautiful! Be proud to show it off.
Get romantic in the bedroom.
Husbands often say that after being married a while that their wives no longer initiate romance. You get frisky first and feel confidant doing so.
Do something playful and fun with your spouse.
Men enjoy recreational activity. Show him you know how to have a good time. Play golf, go to the gym, take a bike ride, go to a theme park or try something out of the box. Mixing up your recreational activity is a great way to keep your relationship interesting.
Hold hands again, sit next to one another again; take time to appreciate one another each and every day.
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