We often talk about the challenges and realities of dating as a single parent here in the Single Parents blog. I figure I know a little bit about this subject since I have been single for several years and have definitely been on my share of dates (and then some.) One great way that single parents can get out there and meet new people, but without the stress and pressure of a one-on-one date, is to consider group dating—going out with a group of other single people or doing a group activity.
Group dates can be much less pressure and can actually be a lot of fun. In fact, if you are going as a single, unattached person, it is a good way to meet several new people and to expand your friend base in addition to meeting potential dates. Group dates can be anything from dinner out, to a concert, to a day trip to a nearby museum. There may already be social groups or singles group in your area that do fun group activities and would be happy to have you join. Often churches, community centers, and other “self-created” social groups exist and they are a perfect opportunity to do some group dating.
If you are just getting back into dating after a hiatus, group dates can be a great way to ease back into the scene and expand the people you know socially, without all of the stress and discomfort of trying to find a date. If you do not know of a social organization or a group that you can join, consider starting one of your own. Pick an activity that you would like to do and put the word out—Craig’s List, a community newsletter, a personal ad or even an announcement in the church bulletin can help you get your “group” together so that you can start group dating.
See Also: Speed Dating
Group Dating Vs. Group Outings