On the fourth of July I am reminded that as a single parent especially, I need to remember to be thankful for the freedoms we have. In the USA we have the option to get counseling to try and fix a marriage in trouble, the freedom to leave a bad marriage, the ability to support ourselves and our children, and the court system to protect our rights and those of our children.
Some families are not healthy and as hard as it is to get a divorce, sometimes it is the best thing for our children. I am grateful for the freedom to make my own choices when it comes to my life and how I parent my child. Other people have the freedom to disagree with my choices and decisions, but they don’t get to make them for me. Too often we take for granted the little freedoms we have, but they are just as important as the big ones and they are all a part of what makes our country great.
Some people are in abusive marriages, their spouse may abuse them or their children but because we live in this country they don’t have to stay in that situation. There are programs to help abused spouses and laws to protect them and their children. Usually with a few simple phone calls you can find the help you need, or at least get pointed in the right direction.
We also have the right to marry whom we choose, when we choose. To decide if and when to have children and how to parent those children including what church and schools those children attend.
Making the decision to get married, have children or get a divorce is never easy but for my health and well being, and that of my child, I’m glad I have the freedom to make my own decisions. Today and every day, God Bless America.