We talk quite a bit about homeschooling moms getting burned out. All the talk is valid since I know of no homeschool mom who has not experienced burn out on some level. A homeschool mom wears plenty of hats that often weigh down on her head. Just as moms get burned out so the children. A homeschool child does not lead a life of leisure. The child also experiences stress and constantly navigates between student and son or daughter. The child has to balance his interaction with this teacher and his mom since mom and teacher have some unique differences in the classroom.
Causes of Homeschool Child Burn Out:
Family Stress:
A homeschool child has a front row center seat to all that goes on in the family. All children regardless of where he is educated are perceptive and feel the stress of home. However, a homeschooled child is often more aware of details or witness to feuds, sick relatives, financial trouble or the alike.
Curriculum Challenges:
If the child is bored with curriculum or the method of study he will become burned out. Alternatively if the child is faced with a curriculum or study that is too challenging he will also become burned out.
Overloaded with activities:
Homeschool parents sometimes overload their children with activities and extra-curricular activities to debunk the socialization myth. I believe homeschoolers should be too busy for school. However, not so busy the children do not experience their education. If a child is overloaded with constant activities he may grow weary and eventually burn out.
Clash of learning and teaching style:
A teacher/student clash is enough to make both the teacher and the student become burned out. Assess your methods and your child’s learning style for a more harmonious homeschool experience.
Ways to Alleviate Homeschool Child Burn Out
Break:
Even the children need a break once in a while. Make sure you plan breaks throughout your year so your child has time to recoup and be a child.
Field Trip:
If the stress is mounting sometimes a change of scenery helps. Plan a field trip to spark your child’s curiosity about what he is studying. If we connect the concepts with real life a student is more inclined to learn and absorb information.
Revisit the Curriculum:
Be flexible and always willing to change. Children change over the years so it is wise to take stock of your methods, curriculum and child’s interests and learning styles.
Simplify:
Take a realistic look at your schedule. Some children love to be on the go nonstop while others need time to study in quiet. If your child is stressed by a busy schedule then do not afraid to cut out an activity. Plan extra-curricular activities in the beginning of the year and be mindful of how much you pile on in one semester.
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