Every family experiences trials from time to time. Trials come in varying sizes and shapes with varying consequences and outcomes. During these times it is understandable that a family becomes concentrated and even distracted by such times. It can make communication between family members difficult. Trials are tough enough but when homeschooling is added into the mix it can make a hard situation harder.
Homeschooling is a joy until it isn’t. During difficult times it can become a source of concern, stress and even a burden. Mustering up the energy to teach English and grace math becomes near impossible during a trial. As homeschooling parents we feel guilty if workbooks do not get finished or art projects never get started. The pressure we place on ourselves during a trial with respect to homeschooling can be immense. The more overwhelmed we become the more we entertain the idea of not homeschooling even for a season. Friends and family may suggest a break to relieve the stress. Is this the right answer?
It is important to make decisions based on what is right for your family. Decisions this important need to be made without the pressure of family or friends. It is a decision made by the parents. Since trials are inevitable it would be best to discuss how to handle times of stress before one occurs. If you are in the midst of one and feel lost and without a plan, it’s okay. You have options if you intend to continue homeschooling.
Consider taking time off of school. Do not fear educational gaps or not finishing the year. A stressed teacher is ineffective and impatient. A mom keeping perspective and maintaining her testimony during a time of crisis will teach more in that time than any textbook.
Perhaps you can switch to a student led curriculum such as Alpha Omega or Switched on Schoolhouse. If that is still too much you may want to consider a virtual school for a short time.
Trials pass and when it is over you want to look back and know your choice was not made in haste or due to pressure from outside sources.