The dangerous type of guy seems so attractive. His rugged good looks and “who cares?” attitude seem so free and exciting. So, why is it that this is the kind of guy that always ends up breaking your heart?
You may be sitting there thinking, “What’s wrong with me?” Well, there is probably not a thing wrong with you, except for the fact that you choose the wrong types of men. Trust me, you’re far from being alone.
Many women think that they will find excitement and passion with the daring, devil may care, aloof man that looks so darned hot. Unfortunately, what they’ll usually find is just what they see, a man who is more daring and reckless than is healthy, someone who couldn’t care less about what others think –or feel- and someone who is detached and distant even when he’s romantically involved with another person.
This is not to say that all sexy, adventurous men are bad, far from it! You probably know exactly what kind of guy I’m talking about. At first you can’t get enough of him (even though he can easily get enough of you), but after a while, you feel just a little scared of him. You can’t really put your finger on it, and others may not even notice, but there is something about this guy that doesn’t feel right. Usually, by this time, you’re already wrapped up in him and have a hard time pulling away. If you try, he’ll shower you with just enough charm and attention to keep you coming back for more. This kind of personality frequently becomes abusive.
There are of course women who are just as dangerous. No matter the gender, these kinds of people are often considered sociopaths. Sociopaths have no real sense of conscience and do not care about other people. They care only about pleasing themselves.
Again, these words don’t apply to every hot, impulsive person you meet. There are particular types that fit the mold, and you can learn more by reading Sociopathic Style. There are twenty traits in the list, so click the arrows to the left to see them all. If the person you are dating consistently exhibits more than a few of these traits, you could be dating an anti-social person.
It’s better to find out now and get away from him or her before you get any further involved. This is not the kind of person you want to make a life with. There are plenty of decent, loving, people that are also sexy, fun, and exciting… without being dangerous.
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