Is it not nice to have the warning systems that we have in our world today? We have warnings for storms and tornados. We have warnings for fires. We have warnings for burglars. We even have warning lights to let us know when there is trouble with our car.
With all of these different types of warnings out there, you would think that it would be very easy for us to pick up on the warning signs of our relationship. However in some cases we are not as sensitive to those signs as we are to many other warnings. While you cannot expect your spouse to light up to let you know that something is wrong, there are signs that let you know when trouble is about to brew.
There are warning signs that let you know that you are having internal troubles within yourself. There are also warning signs that let you know that your relationship is in trouble. Identifying these signs quickly enough are the key to heading off deep trouble.
If you recognize internal troubles then you need to attend to those before they turn into trouble for your relationship. If you sense trouble with your relationship you try to head off those as quickly as possible too.
When you quickly take care of your personal struggles you are less likely to take then out on the rest of your family. You can work through them before they escalate into bigger issues.
Recognizing the troubles before they have a chance to occur is a very important skill that couples need. This skill can help keep troubles to a minimum or even head them off completely. When you feel that things are not right, they typically are not. Do not avoid your feelings. Put them to work at getting things back on track.