As a parent one of the greatest feelings in the world is watching the little triumphs in our children’s lives. Today I got to witness one of those triumphs for my little Logan. Anyone that knows my 4 year old knows how shy he can be sometimes, especially in big groups. Today was our annual primary program at our church. This is a time when the children have the opportunity to share with their parents what they have been learning throughout the year in their primary classes. Each child was assigned a speaking part to memorize and all the children sang the songs they’ve been practicing all year long. It’s something the members of our church look forward to every year. There is a special spirit about the little children that just melts the hearts of everyone they come in contact with.
This was Logan’s very first primary program. He’s had his part memorized for a month. He’s practiced and practiced and practiced to make sure he had it just right. But knowing how shy this little guy can be I was naturally a little worried that he might get nervous and not want to say his part in the big microphone in front of all those people. Boy was I wrong! That little boy proudly stood up there for all to see and said his part perfectly. I have never been so proud of him as I was today.
Seeing your children conquer their fears is a nothing short of pure joy for a parent. You know how tough they are and while you always believed in them, it is something special when you see them believe in themselves. It teaches them that they can do hard things. Don’t forget to share these little triumphs with your ex. It gives them the opportunity to be proud of your child too. I was lucky enough that my ex was there to be able to see Logan overcome his fear. Even though we aren’t married anymore, it was nice to have him there to be a part of this little triumph for our son, and I know it meant the world to Logan too.