Do you want to get a clearer picture of your marriage and your spouse? Try this quiz. Better still, both you and your spouse do the quiz. Separately of course, and then compare answers later.
1. What is your spouse’s favorite color?
2. What is your spouse’s favorite movie?
3. What is your spouse’s favorite song? Is it your song?
4. Would your spouse be able to buy you something you like in the way of jewelry or clothes?
a. always,
b. mostly
c. sometimes
d. occasionally
e. never
5. Would you be able to buy your spouse something they’d like in the way of jewelry, clothes, music or books
a. Always,
b. Mostly
c. sometimes
d. occasionally
e. never
6. How often do you tell your spouse you love them?
a. never
b. occasionally
c. about once a week
d. once a day
e. more than once a day
f. when having sex
7. How often does your spouse tell you they love you?
a. never
b. occasionally
c. at least once a week
d. once a day
e. more than once a day
f. when having sex
8. How often does your spouse show by their actions that they love you?
a. never
b. occasionally
c. at least once a week
d. once a day
e. more than once a day
9. How often do you finish each other’s sentences or go to say the same thing?
a. never
b. occasionally
c. at least once a week
d. once a day
e. more than once a day
10. What would you change about your spouse?
a. nothing, they’re perfect the way they are
b. there’s nothing worth worrying about
c. a couple of annoying habits
d. too many to list. They need a major overhaul
11. What is your spouse’s favorite activity, sport or hobby?
12. How many of their sport, hobby or activities, do you enjoy together?
a. A lot
b. a few but still plenty separate
c. one or two.
d. none
e. the sex
13. When you have an argument who is first to apologize?
a. your spouse
b. you
c. no one. We just move on after a while
d. sometimes you , sometimes your spouse.
e. we never argue
14. Do you go to church together?
a. never
b. sometimes
c. occasionally
d. mostly
15. What is one thing your spouse is good at? How long since you complimented them about that or told them you are proud of them?
16. What is your spouse’s main goal in life? Is it similar to your main goal?
Check back tomorrow for some thoughts about this quiz and your answers. I’ll be surprised if the results of this quiz aren’t different to that of the one I mentioned in my last post.
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