Sometimes I think the first birthday comes in the blink of an eye. Other times, I think it takes forever to get there. That’s what having a baby is all about. Time is either dragging slowly or speeding by so fast you want to cry.
When my baby turned 1 last month, I felt like crying. I think it’s because he has been such a little love. So sweet. And, he is my last baby. My last baby is one. That breaks my heart. But, at the same time, it makes me so happy.
I look forward to all the fun things coming up, too. You see, since he is my third, I know how fun it is when they really start walking. I know how fun it is to watch them learn how to talk. I love how they magically figure out that sleeping is a good thing. And, they do it. I love when kids figure out how to put on their own pants and enter the, “I can do it” stage. I love when they can really give hugs and kisses. And, when they tell you they love you for the first time? That’s the best feeling you can ask for.
His first birthday went great. It was low key with just family. I thought about a bigger party, but instead went with just making fun decorations and a cake. It was a hungry caterpillar birthday. I loved putting it together, and I think he liked it, too. It was a fun day to celebrate, but everyday with a baby is a celebration.
So, yes, having your last baby turn one can be sad. And, even if it’s your first, that can feel sad, too. But, with all the things you will miss, there are just as many things to look forward to. So, don’t mourn your baby turning one. Instead, tell yourself that you have another full year of memories and happy moments to look forward to.