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Our First Night Home

Our first night home with our sons was like parenting by fire. Our oldest son Steve had beautiful curly hair and big brown eyes. We noticed that he kept scratching his head and we could not figure out why until we looked. His hair was moving! We never had any experience with lice before this very day and now we were driving to the nearest 24 hour pharmacy and buying lice treatments. There was so many different choices which one should I choose?

I bought the one I saw on TV, more proof that advertising works I guess. We brought it home and followed the instructions and hoped for the best. We waited and went on with our first night as a family. We watched some cartoons, played with toys and read stories, did baths and then it was off to bed.

We tucked George in his crib and Steve in his toddler bed, we put some music on for them to listen to and we went into the living room and watched the boys doze off for their first night sleep in their new home. We had bought video baby monitors and had two cameras in the boys’ room one aimed at each child. We sat there for hours just watching them; we finally went to bed but were up very often checking on them sleeping. We went in one time and did not see Steve in bed; we looked in the bathroom, and all around the house. We had a security system in the house so we know he had not left. We tried not to make too much noise because we did not want to wake George. When we were quiet we heard a soft sobbing. When we looked for the sobbing we saw that Steve was under his toddler bed in the corner near the wall and he was crying in his sleep.

We knew a little about their history but we did not know why he was crying. We carefully lifted the bed off of him and saw that he was sleeping with his hands around his head like he was shielding himself. It broke our hearts. We sat on the floor and carefully woke him and told him he was safe. He crawled in my lap and curled up next to me and fell back to sleep. We know that the books say you should not let a child sleep with you but we did that night. We carried him to our bed, lice and all, and he slept for hours. That is until he woke up and threw up all over our bed. Now I have a very weak stomach and this was putting it to the test, I got him up, cleaned him up and asked my husband to help. He agreed that is until he threw up at the smell and sight of it.

Great now I have to clean up after two people throwing up, come on could this really be our first night as a family. Well after a few choice words from my husband got it together with a shirt pulled over his face like he was ready to rob a bank and we got the mess cleaned up and everyone back to bed. All I could do was pray that tomorrow was going to be better. Great day one I will never forget for sure.

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About Tammy Woolard

My name is Tammy and I am 40 year old mother of 3 wonderful children who came to us through domestic adoption. Although we did not have any fertility issues we chose adoption because there are so many kids that did not ask to be born but truly want a family to love. We did research on adoption choices and decided on domestic adoption through CPS. You would be surprised the differences between each agency. The adoption process is nothing like you see in the movies. I am also a 5 year breast cancer survivor. When I was diagnosed my kids were 3, 5 and 7 I did so much research I may have driven my Dr. a little crazy but that is ok it is my body not his.