If you can’t find a single thing valuable about your kids’ video games, then you obviously haven’t been reading the paper inserts that come in the game boxes. Many video game manufacturers now include tiny leaflets as part of their product’s packaging listing reasons why electronic gaming is beneficial to a child’s development.
Surprisingly, more and more childhood experts are going public supporting the video-games-can-be-an-important-part-of-a-child’s-social-life philosophy. Though, the experts add one caveat: Video games are okay provided they are played in moderation and the types of games being played are age appropriate.
A recent study found that quality video games:
*Encourage teamwork and cooperation
*Provide a stimulating form on entertainment
*Improve a child’s computer skills and encourage an interest in technology (experts note that this is especially important for girls, who are not typically as drawn to computers as boys)
*Increase a child’s self-esteem as they master games and learn new skills
*Improve eye-hand coordination and other fine motor skills
*Improve math and problem-solving skills
Childhood experts also suggest parents get involved in their children’s video game playing to avoid having their kids crossover into the “danger zone” (a.k.a. the abyss of uninterrupted marathon game playing that cultivates an unhealthy obsession with video games).
If your child is an avid video gamer, experts say it’s important that you discuss video game content, especially if your kid is under 12 and enjoys playing games that feature material that you find offensive. Likewise, teen gamers should be talked to as well. Many teens are attracted to video games that contain violent or sexist content. However, since the market is saturated with these types of game, it’s unrealistic to try to ban them outright. Regardless, it is your responsibility as a parent to speak to your children about offensive material found in video games, and with any luck the values you preach will stick with them even when they play games at a friend’s house or at an arcade.
Related Articles:
You Know Your Kid is Obsessed with Texting When…
A Lesson for Parents WithText-Crazed Kids
Confessions of a Reluctant Facebook Parent
Does Your Child Have a Cellphone?