In my previous article, I discussed the reasons why I do not think that working in the same school with my husband would be a good idea.
Although my husband and I are probably best at two different schools, many couples work in the same workplace and have no troubles at all. I think that the position of the two people in the couple makes a big difference. In my situation, my husband would be my boss. I feel that more conflicts would occur between a couple if one partner is the supervisor over another.
When the two share equal responsibility at work, the two will likely have fewer work related troubles. We have a husband and wife that work at my school. She is a third grade teacher and he is a physical education teacher. They only see each other in passing and the relationship seems to work well.
Pros of couples working together
When a couple works together at the same workplace, scheduling problems can be avoided. Many couples are forced to deal with conflicting work schedules. Americans spend much time at work. When you work with a spouse you can add some couple time by riding together to and from work and taking a lunch break together.
To certain extent, this also fits my husband and I. While we are not at the same school, we have a very similar job. Our schedules are the same. We have the same vacation time and breaks.
Cons of couples working together
When a couple works together, jealously can occur. If one or the other partner gets a promotion or is favored at work, the other person may feel some resentment. Some couples also enjoy the separation that they have by having a life at work. They enjoy not having their mate involved in every aspect of their life. Having your own individual identity at work and not being related to as a couple or the husband or wife of a spouse can be nice.
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