If there were a guaranteed way to “cheat proof” your marriage, you would probably pay big bucks to find out what it is. You don’t have to, because I am about to tell you.
The very best way to keep your spouse from even thinking about cheating is to make him or her feel like the most important, most special person in the world. It sounds difficult, but it’s really quite simple when you genuinely love someone.
First, you have to show interest in your spouse. Pay attention to how his day went. Learn more about her childhood. Ask him about sports. Being interested in another person makes him or her feel important.
Adore your spouse. You love your husband or wife, but do you adore him or her? You should. This is the person you chose to share the rest of your life with, so if you feel adoration, show it.
Be your spouse’s best friend. Be fun and interesting to be around. When your spouse prefers your company to that of friends, relatives, and even prefers time with you over hobbies, you’re doing something right. Are you the first person he shares news with? Are you the one she comes to first for comfort or support? If not, find out why and work to change it.
Sex is often considered the main course of an affair. In fact, it’s generally more like a side dish. People may reach out for sex, but they are often reaching for something deeper, such as understanding, real companionship, or being with someone who prefers him or her to all others.
Still, sex is an important issue. If a marriage does not include a healthy and fulfilling sex life, other things are also generally out of whack as well. Work to discover and improve underlying problems so the two of you can get back to making love in ways that are satisfying to both of you.
Satisfaction. This too may be an issue. One spouse may be more daring or creative than the other when it comes to the bedroom. If it is important to your spouse and it isn’t anything that makes you truly uncomfortable, you might try loosening up a little. It’s okay. You’re married!
On the other hand, one spouse may not get as much from sexual encounters as the other does. If it’s an emotional issue, it needs to be dealt with and may require professional help. However, if it’s a physical issue, it may just require some patience and attention. Tell your spouse what you want and need. Read informative books together.
There are many ways to make sure your everyday life as well as your sex life are fulfilling for both spouses. These are good ways to cheat proof your marriage.