Well a few months passed since we last called Steve’s tummy Dad so I decided to give him a call. One of the first things he mentioned was that the kids’ tummy mommy aka the biological mother had called out of the blue and was asking if he had heard from us. Now this sent up all sorts of red flags first time we called he had not heard from her in years and now all of a sudden she is calling him to see if we had called him. She did not know what information we had on him and we never agreed to contact him so why would she all of a sudden call to see if we had called him.
When we talked last time we made it clear we did not want her to know we had called and we still don’t. He says he did not tell her we had called but I was still feeling a little iffy. I don’t know if we can trust him or not. I hope we have not made a huge mistake by calling.
In full disclosure the biological father for Steve is blind so when we called I tried to block our number but because he is blind his phone service has to say the telephone number that is calling. I called from my cell both times but he still would know what number I am calling from. With this new development about the biological mother calling him out of the blue I am a little concerned that he called her to tell her that we made contact and if she does know that I am worried that she too will have my cell number.
I updated Steve’s bio dad about how great he is doing in school and how big he is getting. I also reminded him again that I will call him as long as he does not tell the bio mom that we are speaking. I think she has lost any right to find out about the kids. He again promised not to tell her we are speaking.