The most difficult choice you will face in your pet’s life comes near the end of your time together: euthanasia. If your pet’s quality of life is suffering, if your pet is in unmanageable pain, or if the cost of treatment is simply too much for you to bear, you may need to consider euthanasia as an option.
When faced with the death of your pet, you may not know where to start thinking about it, or what questions to ask. The following list may help you make an informed decision. Discuss these questions with your family, your friends, and especially your veterinarian.
- How will the procedure be performed? Usually, the veterinarian will inject a tranquilizer so your pet will go to sleep, then an overdose of a sedative.
- Where will the procedure be done? Some veterinarians do offer in-home euthanasia, so your pet can pass away in familiar surroundings.
- When will the procedure be done? You may need a few days to come to terms with the idea of euthanasia. You may also want to schedule the procedure for a time when friends or family members can be with you.
- Can the procedure be delayed? A wait may help you say goodbye, but the feeling of it lingering over your head may ruin your last days together.
- Do you want to be present during the procedure? You may want to stay with your friend for a final goodbye, and to see your pet finally at rest. You may prefer to remember your pet alive and active and not see your pet as they pass away. Neither one is the “right” choice — you have to do what is best for you.
- Does it matter to your pet if you are there? You are the most important person in your pet’s life. If you can be calm and loving during the procedure, your pet will absolutely want you there. However, your emotional state (anxiety, grief, anger) can upset your pet.
- What happens to your pet’s remains? Do you want him cremated? Do you plan to bury him? Would you rather not have him returned to you in any form? Everyone feels differently about their pet’s remains.
- How do you tell your children? It may be hard to explain the truth to your children, but they do deserve to know what happened. Give them a chance to ask questions, and explain everything in simple terms.