What kind of master bedroom do you have? Is it romantic, sophisticated, average, or boring? If you had to describe the space you share with your spouse in one word, what would that word be?
A married couple’s bedroom should be a retreat, a sanctuary from the outside world. That means even from the rest of the household, even the kids sometimes. It should be a comfortable, relaxing area where you and your spouse can talk or even just hide out once in a while for a few moments so that you can catch your breath.
Today, families tend to be very close and children are generally allowed access to Mom and Dad’s room. It is of course important to ensure that they knock before entering, but most modern parents don’t have an “off limits” room like many parents did when I was growing up. Couples should do what makes them comfortable in this regard, but you should still be able to retreat to the bedroom for privacy and for sanctuary when the need arises.
Once the ground rules have been laid, take a good look at the space itself. Is it inviting? Is it a place you want to spend time?
Rate your bedroom:
- Spa-like Retreat
- Essence of Romance
- Sexy Love Nest
- Soothing Sanctuary
- Fairly Functional
- Pretty but Plain
- Bordering on Boring
Do any of these aptly describe your master bedroom? Would you choose a different description? If so, what would it be? Maybe you just wish a different description would fit. You can make that happen. You can spruce up your master bedroom without a complete makeover and add some charm without a lot of time, money, or effort.
The following article has some ideas that can help you make your master bedroom into the retreat you and your spouse want and deserve:
A More Romantic Master Bedroom