There are many marriage therapist and psychologist out there that practice both off and online. Many have websites, forums, and chat lines. Through looking at some of the ideas and thoughts from these therapists, I noticed a trend in one common topic that was discussed.
The therapists admit that there are many issues that couples could be concerned about. They could discuss love, lust, sex, intimacy and more. However the one thing that most couples are drawn to talking about is whether or not their relationship is meant to last.
It seems that partners struggle the most with determining whether or not they should stay in the relationship or leave. Some of these couples are married, others are dating seriously, and some are live in partners. Either way they are all questioning the strength and bond of the relationship.
In a previous article, I had discussed that in most cases if you are concerned and still with your mate, then there are enough feelings to re-grow the love that you once had. This I still believe.
However one article also brought another light to the subject. When examining the thoughts of one therapist, Dr. Arlene Krieger, I found that she questions her clients about respect.
She asks each partner if they respect the other. Respect is a key element in a relationship. If you do not truly respect the person that you are with and he or she does not respect you then things may never work.
It may be easy to jump ahead and quickly say that yes you respect your mate. However before answering, give it some deep thought. Think of the ways that you show your mate respect.
In addition, she also asks couples to think back to the things that brought them together. No matter how simple or insignificant these things may be, it is important to remember what first attracted you to your mate.