In the previous article, “What is Marriage Education?” we discussed the purpose of such programs. If you’re interested in marriage education, the question now is how to choose a program that suits you.
First, you’ll need to do a little research to find out what is available in your area. That will help narrow your choices down a bit. If there isn’t a program located near your home, see if you can find one near your place of employment or one that isn’t too inconveniently located.
Next, determine which setting is right for you. Are you looking for a faith-based program? A community sponsored program? One that is geared toward new couples, long married couples, people close to your age or whom share the same faith, interests, or economic background?
If you have been married for a few years, you probably don’t want to attend a premarital education program or a newlywed marriage education seminar. On the other hand, if you are engaged or newly married, you don’t want to be in a class for “old timers.” Since there are different things we need to master at different phases in our marriages, it’s best to seek a program that is closely related to where you are in your relationship.
Visit the marriage education center to make sure you will be comfortable in that setting. Meet with the instructor, ask questions, and familiarize yourself a bit. It’s a good idea to go as a couple, so that your spouse or fiancée will also be at ease.
Of course, cost is going to be a consideration for many couples, so see if there is a sliding scale program based on income, if you are concerned. Some civic centers and faith-based programs are free of charge, or simply ask you to donate what you can. Marriage education is about helping people build healthy marriages and families, and therefore communities.