Drug abuse is a problem that many teens face, especially if the teen has frequent feelings of not fitting in, low self-esteem or depression, or if there is a family history of drug use.
As parents we often don’t know exactly what our teenagers are involved in and it isn’t always easy to tell. If you are concerned that your teen might be involved in illegal drugs you need to look for some common signs. The sooner you can intervene the better. Focus Adolescent Services lists five areas that parents can evaluate.
Physical Warning Signs
fatigue
repeated health complaints
red and glazed eyes
lasting cough
Emotional Warning Signs
personality change
sudden mood changes
irritability
irresponsible behavior
poor judgment
general lack of interest
Family Dynamics
starting arguments
negative attitude
breaking rules
withdrawing from family
secretiveness
School Behaviors
decreased interest
negative attitude
drop in grades
many absences
truancy
discipline problems
Social Problems
new friends who make poor decisions and are not interested in school or family activities
problems with the law
changes to less conventional styles in dress and music
There are also specific signs associated with different types of drug use.
Marijuana – odor similar to burnt rope, forgetfulness in conversation, rapid loud talking followed by sleepiness, and inflammation of whites of the eyes.
Paraphernalia includes roach clip, packs of rolling papers, pipes or bongs.
Stimulants (cocaine, amphetamines, methamphetamines) – dilated pupils, frequent licking of lips, excessive activity and nervousness, changes subjects rapidly when talking, and frequent runny or bloody nose.
Paraphernalia includes small spoons, razor blades, mirror, little bottles of white powder and plastic, glass or metal straws.
Depressants (barbiturates, benzodiazapines) – lack of animation, symptoms of alcohol use without the smell, often indicated by frequent prescriptions to treat anxiety or stress.
Narcotics (heroin, codeine, morphine, Vicodin) – drowsiness, raw nostrils from inhaling, scars on inner arms, slurred speech, pupils that don’t respond to light.
Paraphernalia includes syringes, bent spoons, bottle caps, eye droppers, rubber tubing, cotton and needles.
Hallucinogens (LSD, mescaline) – dilated pupils, excessive perspiration, distorted senses, mood and behavior changes, flashbacks.
Dissociative Anesthetics (PCP) – unpredictable behavior, disorientation, fear, deadened sensory perception, rigid muscles.
Inhalants (glue, vapor producing solvents, propellants) – substance odor on breath and clothes, runny nose, watery eyes, poor muscle control, drowsiness.
Presence of bags or rags containing dry plastic cement or other solvent at home, in locker at school or at work, discarded whipped cream, spray paint or similar chargers (users of nitrous oxide), small bottles labeled “incense” (users of butyl nitrite).
As parents it is important that we know the signs of drug abuse and the regular behavior of our teens so we can recognize changes that occur.
For the differences between drug abuse and addiction see my blog.
Read my upcoming blog about how to talk to your teenager about drugs.