Attaching In Adoption by: Deborah Gray

Deborah Gray is an experienced family therapist and clinical social worker who specializes in grief, trauma and attachment with older children who have history of abuse and, or neglect. Gray teaches parents how important it is to be patient and that creating a highly structured, highly nurturing environment can help with the attachment of an adopted child. The book Attaching in Adoption includes cross-cultural and interracial adoption, and religious concerns. With a detailed exploration of developmental delays many kids who have been adopted later in life may suffer. “Attaching In Adoption” helps adoptive parents form realistic expectations, while providing suggestions … Continue reading

Book Review “Parenting the Hurt Child”

Parenting the Hurt Child by: Gregory C. Keck, PhD. and Regina M. Kupecky L.S.W. This book is filled with valuable information, insight, and resources for those who adopt older children with a history of trauma. The authors propose, early childhood trauma can be healed by, nurturing parenting in non-traditional forms. The introduction of this book lays the foundation with these words: “…foster and adoptive parents are not responsible for their children’s problems. But they are responsible for creating the proper environment for change, the motivation for growth, the direction for improvement, and the security needed for comfortable attachment. Their roles … Continue reading