Okay, this is not a new concept in relationships, but it is a valuable one. Even if you have heard this before, remember, it does work. Use “I statements” to communicate problems or concerns instead of saying things that sound accusatory. Saying “I feel hurt” will bring forth a much better response than “You hurt my feelings.” This is true for marriage and for other relationships as well. Combining constructive criticism, good listening skills, and the use of I statements will develop a better form of communication between you and your husband or wife. Examples: This: I didn’t know. Instead … Continue reading →