When a Child Argues with Peers

Many of us have this idyllic vision of childhood friends—we picture our child wandering off into the field hand-in-hand with a best friend—happy, giggling, and best friends forever. The reality, however, is that children argue and fight too. Inviting a friend over for a play date can turn into a bicker-fest. As the parent in charge, is there anything we can do to cut back on the arguing or help our child learn how to communicate in other ways? First of all, arguing is not all bad. Sometimes, our child is working out all sorts of things in those arguments … Continue reading

Marriage Myths – Let’s Chat

It’s Saturday morning and it’s time to take it easy for the weekend. My daughter asked me today why don’t I ever take a holiday? The library was taking a holiday today – in fact it’s taking a holiday for the entire weekend. So she wanted to know why we never took holidays too. I don’t know why I’m telling you this story, except that it illustrates the problem we have when we make assumptions about things. One of the things we make assumptions about are the marriage tales we hear or the urban legends that surround marriage. Although, urban … Continue reading