Justification, rationalization, whatever you want to call it, it can harm your relationship with your husband or wife. Instead of making excuses, or trying to justify something that was obviously wrong, do what you have to do to set things right. Admit what you have done, apologize sincerely, seek forgiveness, and give your spouse some time forgive. If there is a way to make it up to him or her, try to do so, but only if you are being genuine about it, not just trying to get off the hook. One form of justification that can be very damaging, … Continue reading →