Do We Want Them to Be Aware or Afraid?
Preparing our children to live in a relatively “unsafe” world is important; we also want them to know about stranger danger and learn skills for making safe decisions and keeping themselves out of harm’s way, but focusing too much on safety and danger preparation can make our children paranoid and scared. How can we help them to be aware without being afraid? Fear can be really inhibiting. Telling our children that they might get “stolen” or “kidnapped” if they move out of our sight might be something we say with the best intentions, but it can create immobilizing fear for … Continue reading