So many people go into marriage, thinking, “He’s not perfect, but I’ll change what I don’t like.” Men also think this way about women. The fact is none of us can simply force another person to change. We can’t just demand it, nor should we try. Instead, we often use subtler tactics such as manipulation, or we try to intimidate our spouses to behave as we think they should. However, if we use those tactics, we will find our mates changing, but that doesn’t mean it will be a good thing. If you were attracted to your wife because she … Continue reading →