So many times when we are in the middle of our marriages we focus the shortcomings in ourselves and in our spouses. We look at the flabby middle, the graying hair, the fact that no matter how we try, we just can’t learn to make a good casserole. We worry that with marriage comes familiarity leading to disinterest, or that we don’t keep ourselves attractive enough. How many times have you asked your spouse or has he asked you, “Why do you love me?” Have you been able to reply from the heart about all of the little things, the … Continue reading →