Not every divorce and single-parent family situation is a smooth, casual arrangement. In fact, some of the most functional divorce, custody, and co-parenting situation actually have a fair amount of structure to them. It may be necessary to put contracts, written agreements and established meeting times (and rules) in place in order to create a good working relationship between parents and families in the aftermath of a divorce or separation (or in the instance of unmarried or partnered co-parents.) Using contracts and written agreements is NOT a sign of failure. In fact, it is actually a very responsible and adult … Continue reading →