Happily ever after is not a destination. It’s a journey, a work in progress. It requires consistent effort on the part of both spouses to keep the marriage fulfilling. One of the best ways to accomplish this is to put your marriage first, at least some of the time. Yes, that means putting your marriage ahead of the demands of work, home, and even your children at times. Don’t misunderstand. I already sense people saying, “But the children must come first!” I agree with this as an overall premise, but our marriages deserve and they require top billing, at least … Continue reading →