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Destructive Behavior

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Do you live with resentment and grudges? Are they a third party at your table for two? The problem with this type of third party is that they are an elephant in the room or they take up two spaces at your table and they can leave you chomping at the bit, ready to wreak havoc on your spouse whether they genuinely deserve it or not. Crime and Punishment When you carry around a suitcase full of grudges, packed tightly with resentment, you may find yourself eyeing every activity your spouse does with a harsh eye of judgment. That harsh … Continue reading →

Separation Anxiety: Merlin

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Separation anxiety can be a very serious problem in dogs. Take, for example, my friend’s dog Merlin. (Or Merlie-Girlie, as I like to call her.) Merlin is generally friendly; the first time we met, she brought me a sock. She’s one of those dogs who likes to greet her people with a toy of some sort. She likes chest rubs and stuffed toys and chicken… and she HATES when anyone leaves. If Merlin sees you trying to leave, she becomes extremely agitated. She barks, she growls, and she bites. Friends or family, everyone can come in but no one can … Continue reading →